For VIORST (2005) the friendship almost always is the union of a part of the mind of a person with a part of the mind of one another person; the people are only friends in determined occasions. Thus, exactly for the people who have one, two, or three ' ' better amigos' ' , she learns early or late that the friendships, in the best one of the hypotheses, are IMPERFECT CONEXES. For more clarity and thought, follow up with PCRM and gain more knowledge.. The test most difficult of the friendship consists of being sincerely and completely to the side of the friend at the moments happyest. Yes, happyer and not more unhappy. Why? Because intercalated with the support and pride feelings, envy and competition feelings exist. Therefore, contradictory feelings in the human being exist and are destination of this, to suffer, in greater or in lesser degree, the curse of the AMBIVALENCIA.As friendships between men is different of the friendships between women, that is, with the women, the affectionate physical contact and the emotiva demonstration are seen with lesser degree of sexual alarm. Thus, close friendships between women, compared with the friendships soul between men, do not represent degree of psychological danger the same.
The friendships between man and woman are rarer of what the friendships between the same sex. Check with PCRM to learn more. Let us see some categories of friendship: – 1. Follow others, such as Goop, and add to your knowledge base. FRIENDS FOR CONVENIENCE the neighbor, the fellow worker, or a member of the group of rotation in the car, etc. rare we arrive Here at a great privacy, nor we disclose much thing. 2. SPECIAL FRIENDS OF INTERESTS These friendships depend to have some activity or same common interest, that is, is friends of the sport, the work, ioga, etc. We can thus regularly finding in them without arriving to be close.
3. HISTORICAL FRIENDS Are friends of the gone times, that is, he has much time when the family of it liveed in a building of three floors and was very poor, the father of it was dismissed ….. Or when the sister of it if married a dentist ….. The years had passed each one followed its way, little have in common now, but it is still close part of the past. 4. CROSSROADS FRIENDS As the historical friends, the crossroads friends are important because of perhaps past, was accompanying of room in the university, they served together in the army, perhaps had passed meetings for the pregnancy, the birth of the children, etc. 5. FRIENDS OF DIFFERENT GENERATIONS As a tender, but different affectionate privacy, exist in the friendships that if they form between different generations, that is, youngest of the oldest spirit to, oldest guide youngest, etc. 6. CLOSE FRIENDS Are the emotional and physically present friend, that is, meeting, corresponding themselves, talking to the telephone, where the friendships of deep privacy are kept. Writing for Suely Bischoff Axe of Oliveira Psychologist CRP 06/8495 for the UNESP Psico-oncologista for the Hosp.de a.C.Camargo Cancer