At the beginning of namoro all wonderful age, they adored to take a walk in shopping, to attend to all week the cinematographic launchings, the plans during the engagement; research of buffets, business-oriented suppers, trips, gave credit that it would be forever. Exactly ahead of as many attritions and insults the separation never passed for the thoughts, never was an alternative. Welcome to the reality, nor everything happens of the planned form. The love finished and what it remains? Hurt, much pain, frustration. This is the reply of the pessimistic person, dived in the loss, that does not see that the situations present positive and negative points.
The pain of the loss of the friend (a) to who made oaths still seems an opened wound, dilacerando day-by-day, leaving the sun without brightness, the life without color, any food without flavor! Exactly after months in some cases until years. It is common for some time to feel abandonment, squeeze in the chest, extreme sadness when seeing clothes, photos, I smell feeling it. The epilogue of the sacred marriage is a form of fights; you many without desiring have that to continue the way alone. The dreams and plans had been interrupted. Already he stopped to think if it (a) was so good thus, or you had projected its desires and idealized? The attritions happened because the other difficult age or you wanted to transform it? It is basic to stand out that the bankruptcy of an institution does not occur instantaneously, for the opposite, is a long period that both contribute. However after I ruin it accomplished, remains to join the pieces that sobraram and to discover new ways, to plan new strategies. The separation leaves any unsafe, vulnerable individual.
Perhaps some say that the men suffer more for not sharing, for machismo, to keep the fort position. Independent of the sex pain is real, and the word of order is ' ' REAGIR' '. Right now suffering it has more time to reflect, to evaluate, to invest in its dignity, its well-being, to take care of of its interior, to fortify its emotions. The life this offering a new possibility to you to rewrite its trajectory, moving without its permission the direction. You have diverse alternatives, between them to be crying, bitter taste, muttering, and its friends if moving away. Or to face, to know that the wound this healing, but you decided to fight, to fight for the life, the happiness, you, the other good news that still will happen. Already he decided of that side will be?