Mechanisms of Defense, accepted tools in order to survive. Often we confuse when if you have any questions, we take to reason as to the responsible. We believe the simple meditation on an action or an Act, is sufficient to arrive at the correct answer. Nothing more wrong. Our minds have been developed with different knowledge, feelings and even with different information.
What for some is obvious, to others is diametrically opposed, that we live and in the majority of cases, we understand, is that our genetic inheritance has made us see things. Many times we act in a way that we cannot understand, when this happens, we must look in retrospect, who we are, where we come from, how they were our parents, grandparents. What were their stories, hardships, his environment, in which times existed and, at the end, to the knowledge of their own ailments, can we achieve rediscover us by the genetic burden with which we tend to exist. One of the ways in which our minds defends us, what mechanism we know of Defense, it is perhaps the way that most helps us to overcome in any adeversidad, it happens that able to eliminate from our hearts to someone wanted to at times up to we must reinvent that be its negative side which does not necessarily exist, is how to build a new information possessed of a number of defects that allow us to understand the why of our desire or need to remove us from your environment as a whole on the other. He live with the knowledge and the same feeling of love with someone who we have left, abandoned or simply want to break the ties that we joined him, is a tremendously hard work so any method that serve to make us possible to the estrangement and breakdown can be and are in fact valid without that is why we should feel guilty of the method used. The bad thing is when the other party, the alleged couple that nothing looks like that you agredimos, can not understand that it is purely and simply the love and not hate that talk often. When lost or lost before that new interpretation of his life, feels that they are attacking it.
Life has served to accumulate knowledge and that batch of itching that does not let us be happy. We are a bank that experiences are stored and emerge at the moment and the least expected time. Go in search of that cause, find the reason will allow us to deal with our unique and real truth. While this does not occur, simply we sail in deep seas in which not only swimming, breathing, understand costs us and ultimately keep us afloat.