Frustration

At the beginning of namoro all wonderful age, they adored to take a walk in shopping, to attend to all week the cinematographic launchings, the plans during the engagement; research of buffets, business-oriented suppers, trips, gave credit that it would be forever. Exactly ahead of as many attritions and insults the separation never passed for the thoughts, never was an alternative. Welcome to the reality, nor everything happens of the planned form. The love finished and what it remains? Hurt, much pain, frustration. This is the reply of the pessimistic person, dived in the loss, that does not see that the situations present positive and negative points.

The pain of the loss of the friend (a) to who made oaths still seems an opened wound, dilacerando day-by-day, leaving the sun without brightness, the life without color, any food without flavor! Exactly after months in some cases until years. It is common for some time to feel abandonment, squeeze in the chest, extreme sadness when seeing clothes, photos, I smell feeling it. The epilogue of the sacred marriage is a form of fights; you many without desiring have that to continue the way alone. The dreams and plans had been interrupted. Already he stopped to think if it (a) was so good thus, or you had projected its desires and idealized? The attritions happened because the other difficult age or you wanted to transform it? It is basic to stand out that the bankruptcy of an institution does not occur instantaneously, for the opposite, is a long period that both contribute. However after I ruin it accomplished, remains to join the pieces that sobraram and to discover new ways, to plan new strategies. The separation leaves any unsafe, vulnerable individual.

Perhaps some say that the men suffer more for not sharing, for machismo, to keep the fort position. Independent of the sex pain is real, and the word of order is ' ' REAGIR' '. Right now suffering it has more time to reflect, to evaluate, to invest in its dignity, its well-being, to take care of of its interior, to fortify its emotions. The life this offering a new possibility to you to rewrite its trajectory, moving without its permission the direction. You have diverse alternatives, between them to be crying, bitter taste, muttering, and its friends if moving away. Or to face, to know that the wound this healing, but you decided to fight, to fight for the life, the happiness, you, the other good news that still will happen. Already he decided of that side will be?

Genetic Predisposition To Alcoholism

The role of heredity in disease, alcoholism is very high. The presence of alcoholism among parents is the risk of disease in children at 7 times the risk of dependency in children of healthy parents, which will allow identify children in alkozavisimyh particular risk. It has long been observed that alcoholism usually develops in children whose parents abuse alcohol. According to the research of family alcoholism risk of dependency patients with alcoholism of parents (one or both) to 7 times higher than children of healthy parents. In certain forms of alcoholism, parental likelihood of disease in children up to 88%. Research performed by tracking the fate of children born to parents suffering from alcohol dependence. It turned out that even the education of children in the "healthy" families with a non-drinker adoptive parents and brothers and sisters, the risk of developing alcoholism is 3 times higher than that of nekrovnyh sisters and brothers.

Compared with the non-drinker foster children a large number of drinkers foster children have biological parents – alkozavisimyh. In addition, there is no connection between alcoholism and alcohol abuse adoptive parents of their children, suggesting less influence of the medium. Observations of the twins showed that if one of monozygotic brothers ill from alcoholism, the the other has a 3-fold higher risk of developing the disease than would happen with fraternal twins. Therefore, the influence of genetic factors is not in doubt. However, such observations for single-valued conclusions about the role of heredity is not enough, because with equal bases responsible for the occurrence of alcoholism may be given to environmental factors – education in an atmosphere of drunkenness. Genetics are not children alkozavisimyh as victims, freeing them from liability, and various environmental factors have great importance for the occurrence of alcoholism. Research geneticist, of course, important as the development of prevention treatment, and for specialists who treat alcoholism, to better understand the specifics of the disease.